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Ian Hammonds, LMFT, LPC
Jan 8, 20246 min read
Children from Divorced Homes
Did you know that January is the month when the most people file for divorce? Did you know that one in two children will see their...
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Ian Hammonds, LMFT, LPC
Dec 13, 20234 min read
Men and Suicide (Trigger Warning)
It's no secret that suicide and depression run rampant within the cisgender male population. Growing up, I watched several male family...
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Ian Hammonds, LMFT, LPC
Oct 14, 20236 min read
Why Gaslighting Exists
Why am I writing this blog? I have wanted to write on this topic for a very long time. Gaslighting is so ingrained in our culture, our...
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newwavecounselinga
Nov 21, 20224 min read
Boundary-Setting During the Holidays
A lot of people are becoming more and more ambivalent regarding the holiday seasons. A lot of my clients, friends, and family are filled...
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Ian Hammonds
Nov 8, 20226 min read
Preventing Therapist Burnout
It’s no secret that as healthcare providers, as compassionate humans, and as natural-born caregivers, it is our innate reaction to...
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newwavecounselinga
Oct 18, 20227 min read
Dating a Narcissist: Should I Stay or Should I Go?
If you need immediate assistance in leaving an abusive relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233...
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Ian Hammonds
Oct 4, 20226 min read
Why Couples Argue Over Money
In the five and a half years of being a licensed marriage and family therapist, the concept of money has been omnipresent in all of the...
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Ian Hammonds
Sep 7, 20229 min read
Let's Talk About Imposter Syndrome.
I’d like to begin this piece by saying that the irony of a gay therapist blogging about imposter syndrome was not lost on me. Anyone who...
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Ian Hammonds
Aug 24, 20228 min read
So... You're a Therapist Who Wants to Open a Private Practice
Despite the snarky title of this blog, I actually fully support and admire anyone who chooses to leave the comfort of someone else’s...
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newwavecounselinga
Aug 9, 20227 min read
Codependency, Hyper-Independence, and Interdependent Relationships
Codependency is a very hot button for many therapists and non-therapists alike. Any time I have asked someone for inspiration on what my...
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Ian Hammonds
Aug 2, 20229 min read
Join Hands: Finding the Right Couples Therapist
A very large part of the kind of work I do revolves around couples therapy. Being trained in this very powerful form of psychotherapy, I...
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Ian Hammonds
Jul 27, 20228 min read
Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents
Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents A lot of people in the queer community (I am definitely one of them) imitate and satirize 1981’s...
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newwavecounselinga
Jul 20, 20225 min read
Therapists Are Human Too
Yesterday, I sandwiched my own personal therapy directly between four of my own clients. In lieu of keeping up with a weekly blog, I was...
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Ian Hammonds
Jul 11, 20225 min read
Sensory Overload: Understanding and Preventing It
What Is Sensory Overload? When you first hear “Sensory Overload”, pay attention to what happens in your body. Do you resonate with the...
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newwavecounselinga
Jul 5, 20223 min read
Extreme Self-Care: It's Okay To Not Be Okay
Tuesday, July 5th, 2022. The day after “Independence” Day. And it’s a whopping 97 degrees in Austin, with no end of this heatwave in...
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newwavecounselinga
Jun 27, 20224 min read
Sashay Away, Misogynists! My Heart Lies with Jane Roe
Why This is Personal To Me: I write my second blog in hopes that the Supreme Court’s overturning of Roe vs. Wade (1973) would be looked...
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Ian Hammonds
Jun 24, 20224 min read
Starting a Business: A Therapist's Mental Health Perspective
As I sit here writing my first blog on my own website, it occurred to me that I am the first person in my immediate (and perhaps...
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